I really do love everyone. I think all of the birth oriented sites have some truth to them, and all mean well. Ethically, we could take Kent’s view and say that since they mean well and really do have the desire to do good, they are performing ethically. I also understand that there are a bazillion different ways to view ethics, and even Kent – we could also argue that if we were to use a blanket rule based on childbirth education, for example, and insist everyone have a homebirth, it would be unethical, as babies and mothers that are high risk would suffer. Ethics is tricky, I get it – now I’m off track.
Anyway, as a blog and facebook page with a growing number of fans, I keep my rules simple – you can disagree with me, and that’s cool. I really like back up to claims. And I really can’t stand when other bloggers act unprofessionally.
Recently I endorsed The Mom: Informed in a blog post as a blog and page that I recommend following. As I perused all the sites I follow tonight, I discovered blog posts written as personal attacks. I don’t know the history of all of this drama, and I really can’t gather it all by quickly scanning the facebook page and blog, but that doesn’t matter to me – I shouldn’t have to hunt for the meaning behind a blog.
What I did see was an extreme level of unprofessionalism. I know there are “trolls” out there. I know that depending on who you are, what your beliefs are and what pages you follow you may have specific people or pages that come to mind. I don’t care who they are – remember, I love everybody.
However, you will never see me compose a blog specifically as a personal attack against another person. As I mentioned before, I do not know the history here, but I follow a wide range of viewpoints, and no matter what the views are, I do not find personal attacks acceptable, professional, or ethical – no matter which view of ethics I try to take.
So unfortunately I would like to add to this blog that I no longer encourage fans of MEB to follow The Mom: Informed. I find that while TM:I has some view points that I really appreciate and some blog posts that are great, I cannot endorse a blogger who is personally attacking someone else. I hope that everyone can understand why I feel that I need to do this – it is not personal by any means, but as a professional I do not feel that I can support and endorse someone who acts this way.
I will be removing TM:I from the list on my previous blog.
I hope everyone understands, and I thank you for following me.